Should you be allowed a religious funeral if you don't believe in God? A vicar in Kent says he often feels ' like a lemon' conducting funerals for non-believers. Is it hypocritical to have a church funeral with pop songs and poems instead of hymns and prayers? Four ex-army leaders say British military symbols like the poppy are being hijacked by right wing groups like the BNP. Do you wear a poppy? If not, why not? And, have you ever stepped on someone to get ahead? Or have you been done over by a colleague trying to get that top job?